Work With Me
I'm Della Wren! Thanks for coming to check out all the different ways you can work with me one-one-one.Why would you want to work with me?I'm a self-mastery coach! Self-mastery was the process I was given intuitively to navigate my own healing journey. I learned to manage my thoughts, feelings, and behaviors as a way of feeling better in my relationships with myself and other people.Now I'm here to show you how to do the same thing. By learning to manage your own thoughts and feelings and then shift your behavior, you too can learn to feel better in your own life.
Relationships Matter
Your relationship with yourself matters.Your relationships with the people in your life that you care about matter.Those relationships all affect each other. How you see yourself in each of those relationships affects those relationships.Your perception of your relationship with yourself and others matters because that affects your boundaries, how you respond and react to other people, how you feel about yourself, and who you surround yourself with on a daily basis.By understanding how your thoughts and feelings are affecting your relationships, you can begin to see where you're projecting your own pain, beliefs, and ideas onto other people. You can also see how those things are affecting you within yourself.By learning to understand yourself via managing your mind, emotions, and behavior, you can remove the drama from your life. You can figure out what's yours and what's not. You can figure out how to create relationships with others that aren't painful to you.Self-mastery changed my life because it changed my relationships with myself and other people. It can change yours too if you're willing to question your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.I can help you do that when you're ready!
What I Will Help You Do
Chances are when you first start working with me, you'll have a few things that are on your priority list. These are the things that are screaming the loudest in your life right now.Where's the drama?
What's the excitement?
What's the thing that's keeping your attention most of the time?Those are the things we focus on early. Why? Because those are the the places in your life where the Universe is talking to you. It's showing you through these scenarios what needs to shift. Your job is simply to pick up what the Universe is offering you and do something with it.More often than not, those things are relationship based. It's somebody else's drama. It's somebody else's problem. It's somebody else's pain. Because you've been taught to pick those things up, you think you need to fix them.I have one big message for you and it's an important one - those things are not yours to fix!I'm going to show you how to shift the boundaries, first within yourself and then with other people. I'm going to show you why you feel like you need to pick it up, why you feel like you need to control that person or change that thing. I'm going to show you how to stop taking on everybody else's everything and then I'm going to show you how to manage the things that are yours because when you do that it will change your relationships with other people.When you understand what you're projecting onto others and you understand how to stop doing that, it's a game changer! It will completely change how you see yourself and the people around you!When you're ready for a life-changing adventure, all you have to do is fill in the application form to get started!
Who This is For?
You have to be ready to stay in the room. You have to be willing to do this for yourself.I actually have a refund policy in place. As long as you pay me for the time we spend together you are free to run. I don't block the door. I don't have a barricade. If the fear overtakes you and you run away screaming, that's your prerogative. I can't stop you. I will try to have a conversation with you, but if it doesn't work you're free to take your money and fly away.That means that it's important to me that you're willing to stay in the room even when the fear shows up, even when it gets hard, even when you don't want to, even on bad days, even when you stop caring because you're tired and you've had enough, even when it seems impossible.You have to be willing to be honest with me. I can't help you if you won't say anything. My intuition won't tell me what's happening if there is more benefit in you telling me for yourself. That's just how my intuition works.Your willingness matters to me because I'm not looking to capture you or tie you down in some way. I want you to work with me willingly and openly. I want whatever the goal or dream is that you have to be the most important thing to you at all times.You don't have to like me. I'm going push you. You're probably going to get mad at me at points. You may not agree with me sometimes. If you're not willing to stay in the room and work through those things, you'll be taking advantage of that refund policy in no time.I'll sit in that fear with you all day long. When that fear shows up, I'm going to show you how to stare it down and win that contest. But you have to be willing to stare it down with me. Fear doesn't have to have power over you. I can show you how to manage it so that it never wins again. But I need you to stay in the room to do that. You have to be willing to face the fear long before I can show you how to stare it down.This is not for the faint of heart. It takes guts to stay in the room. It takes guts to keep doing the work no matter what shows up along the way. It takes guts to sit in the fear and stay there.But if you're ready for change. If you're ready to stand up and do this for yourself. I've got you. I know how to get you from where you are to where you want to go. I just need you to be willing to do the work to get there and not run away screaming the minute it gets hard.
Responsibly Irresponsible
It feels selfish and irresponsible to focus on yourself, especially when you see everybody else around you also struggling. I'm here to tell you it's not selfish. It's the most responsible thing you can do for yourself.Do you know why it's not selfish?When you give yourself permission to heal you in turn give everybody around you the same permission. That's important! You will indirectly set the example for the other people in your life.Now, don't let your ego get in here! You don't need to show off. You don't need to make an example of yourself. You just need to do the work. That's it.As you slowly shift yourself and your relationships with others, the people around you that want to maintain a relationship with you will also have to shift. You'll indirectly force the people that want to stay in a relationship with you to shift. It's not because you're going to make them. You're not confronting anybody. You're not demanding anything. You're simply changing the boundaries and your behavior and then staying there and waiting for everybody else to catch up. It's a process that requires some patience, but you can do it.Yes, part of this process is learning how to shift relationships without creating demands and expectations. There's a balance there that I can help you find. The balance is not ego driven. The balance is based on understanding what's yours and what's not so that you can stop taking on things that don't belong to you. When you do that it naturally shifts the balance in your relationships. You're no longer doing what others expect from you. That changes the relationship for the better. It takes a while and people get grumpy, but it does change given enough time.When you're willing to take responsibility for yourself in your relationships, I can help. Fill in the application form below to get started.
What's the point of self-mastery if it doesn't fix the problems?
The tools!The ability to manage life when it happens because it's going to happen anyway.The ability to recognize the cycles and not be scared to shift them.The ability to figure out how to shift the cycles in a way that doesn't create more pain.The ability to accept the truth of who you are.The ability to handle what shows up in your life.The ability to maintain inner-peace and be okay within yourself most of the time.The ability to shift your perception so that you're not just focusing on pain and problems all the time.
The ability to have a mind that is under some semblance of control and isn't just offering you chaos all day every day.The ability to have some emotional control so that your emotions don't sweep you away at the drop of a hat.The ability to shift your behavior so that you are no longer acting as though you are still in the pain you've already worked through.I teach focus and self-mastery not because it will fix your problems for you, but because it shows you how to stop creating problems for yourself through your own thoughts, actions, and feelings. When you stop creating problems for yourself, the world around you shifts naturally. Everybody around you has to figure out how to be in a relationship with this new version of you. That's a good thing. It helps to shift the dysfunction in those relationships. Even in relationships that are mostly positive, the benefits still outweigh the potential for more problems.
Why Work With Me?
I did this work for myself by myself with only my intuition and my tarot cards to guide me. I learned this by living it every single day of my life for the past 9 years.Nobody held my feet to the fire except me.Nobody made me stay in the room except me.Nobody made me stare down the fear except me.Because I was able to do these things for myself, I want to work with people who are also able hold themselves in the room the way I did without needing me to barricade the door for them.You're working with me because you're ready. You're ready for change. You're ready to do the thing. You're ready to move. You're ready to stop being in pain. You're ready to slay the fear of what happens if you change yourself. You're ready to be who you are without all the pain you drag around.You're working with me because you're not afraid to stay in the room and you know that I have the power to move you when you're ready to do the work that you've been avoiding.You're working with me because you have the power within you to change yourself and mend your relationships with other people.I've got you covered when you're ready to learn the art of self-mastery!
The Options
There are three options below for working with me:1. Individual Private Sessions: This is just a one hour session with me. It's a one-off thing with no regular commitment or contract.2. Private Coaching Packages: This is where the magic truly happens. A long term approach to shifting your relationships with yourself and those around you. I offer packages of differing lengths with or without payment plans. Just pick the package that suits you best.3. Scholarship Application: Not everybody can afford this stuff and I want to make it accessible to more people. I'll be offering some free coaching spots as a way to give back. If you'd like to apply for one of those spots, you can do so by clicking the button below. These application forms will be waitlisted and I will pick from that list when I'm filling spots.
Individual Private Sessions
Just want an hour to work through something with me? Have a problem you're stuck on and want to shift your focus? This is the way to do it!When you click the button you'll be taken to an application form. It's only a couple of questions and does not obligate you into buying anything. Once you send it to me, I'll have a read and decide whether we're a good fit or not. If we are you'll get a calendar link and a payment link. If you still want to move forward you can book the appointment and complete your payment. If not, no worries. Apply anytime.
Note: Appointments have to be paid for to be confirmed.
Price: $175 CAD
Coaching Packages
All of my coaching packages include regular weekly video chat sessions with me and full support between sessions in Voxer. When something comes up you can simply send me a voice message in Voxer and we can chat about it. The goal is that you have a constant source of support to manage your focus in between sessions. It also helps to build a relationship when we're sharing the little things going on in our daily lives. Yes, I'm here to be your new best friend!There is a fairly lengthy application form which is linked below. I want to get to know you. I want to learn what the struggle is so that I can help. Filling out the application form is the first step to doing the work. When you're ready, I'll be here to support you.I take on a limited number of people at a time to make sure I leave myself time to write and take care of other parts of my life and business.As applications are received I will create a waitlist from those applications. As spots open up, I will select people from those applications to move forward. I may not respond to your application right away. Please be patient.
Package Options
3 Months: 12 weekly sessions and Voxer support between sessions.
Price: $2 999 CAD
Payment Plan: $1 000 CAD per month for 3 months.6 Months: 24 weekly sessions and Voxer support between sessions.
Price: $5 999 CAD
Payment Plan: $1 000 CAD per month for 6 months.12 Months: 48 weekly sessions and Voxer support between sessions. (It's not 52. Time off is important to both of us. This is a long commitment!)
Price: $10 200 CAD
Payment Plan: $850 CAD per month for 12 months.
Scholarship Application
I understand that not everybody can afford to pay big money for a coaching package. But just because you can't afford the big package, it doesn't mean you don't need the support.I'll be offering some free coaching spots on a regular basis for those that can show me a desire to do the work, a commitment to that work. and a willingness to heal. This work is hard and without an energetic commitment like money, it can be difficult to hold yourself in the game.If you believe you have what it takes to stick around when the going gets tough and you're willing to do the work to shift your focus, click the button below to apply.I won't necessarily respond to these immediately, however I will create a waiting list for spots. As spots become available I will read through the next application in the list until I find someone I'm interested in working with.I may also ask you to prove your financial inability to pay for the service. Please be prepared to do that as part of the application process.If I reach out to you and offer you the possibility of a scholarship, the next step will be to fill in the coaching application form and submit that within 14 days of the emailed offer.Once I have looked through that, if I feel we would be a good fit, I will offer you a spot and you will be able to book your first appointment.Scholarship clients can work with me for up to 12-months if needed. The package length is open-ended and determined by your willingness to do the work, show up, and be open with me about what's going on for you. Your commitment to doing the work is an extremely important factor in whether I continue to work with you. It is very important that you are committed to the journey if you wish to remain in the program.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you offer refunds?
Yes.Full refunds are available for any unused appointment time in coaching packages. Time spent chatting in Voxer is also considered when determining your refund.Individual one-off appointments that are cancelled with a minimum of 48 hours notice are fully refundable.Appointments that are simply skipped will not be refunded.Appointments cancelled via my calendar are not automatically refunded. Everyone must reach out to me directly to request a refund whether for a package or an individual session.What if I can't make it that week?
Life happens sometimes. It's important that you make time for your weekly coaching sessions. They are important to your success in the program. However, I understand that life happens sometimes. Please just reach out to me so that we can try to work out a time outside of my calendar schedule.What happens if I'm late or I forget?
I will remind you by sending the video chat link to you in message form usually an hour or two before our scheduled appointments. If life happens, worry not, just reach out to me so we can work it out. I'm flexible but I also won't put up with regular weekly forgetting. Please be respectful.What is Voxer?
It's a free voice message/walkie talkie app that doesn't require us to trade phone numbers, nor does it require you to have a smartphone. It can be used from a desktop computer. Simply download and sign up for free. Once signed up, I'll help you connect with me so we can stay in touch between sessions.Do you use Zoom?
Nope. I use a different site called Whereby. It is completely free with no sign up or download required. It works right in your browser. The link will be the same every week. Once I give it to you just keep it. Don't worry if you lose it. I'll send it in chat every week.What does offering financial proof for the scholarship application entail?
You do not need to be on some sort of financial assistance program to quality. You just have to be able to prove that money is tight and that access to sufficient credit is not available.
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