Perspective Shifting Packages

Manage Yourself Within the experience

Stop the Struggle!

You know you're meant to be confident.You know you're here to be happy.You know you're meant to enjoy life.You want to find the confidence to make your own choices do your own thing.You want to find the confidence to say no!You want to find the confidence to manage your life and experience on your own terms!You want to be okay in your own skin!You can be when you learn to manage yourself within the experience through self-mastery!

Manage Yourself Not Your Life

Stop the Blame Game!

The work is internal. Learning how to manage yourself helps calm down the crazy in the world around you.How?Because you're no longer reacting from pain. You're no longer offering pain. Your responses are different. You see things differently. You work differently. You are different. Because you've changed yourself with in the experience, the experience naturally changes.But what does that mean?That means you understand your own perspective. You are aware of your own thinking. You begin to understand what makes you tick. The more aware of yourself you become, the more comfortable you get in your own skin, the more willing you will be to change the behaviors you know you have that come from pain.

Private One-Hour Calls

Each package includes one private one-hour call every 10 days or so.

Energy Healing Sessions

In between each call you'll get a 10 to 15 minute energy healing session to help you continue to heal and prepare for our next session.

Unlimited Access to Me!

Each package includes full support in between calls with unlimited access to me in Voxer. Message anytime!

A Welcome Kit

Get a welcome kit with every package that includes information about Voxer, how to book your sessions, and what happens during an energy healing session. Plus there is lots of room for journaling about our sessions.

How You See It Matters

Become More Confident In Yourself

My tragic flaw was a complete lack of self-confidence. That meant that I was a people-pleaser, I never made my own choices, and I saw myself as a victim of everybody's criticisms and suggestions. When somebody would suggest something to me, in my head that meant I had to do it.Is that you?If it is, I've got your back. By understanding my own thoughts and feelings, I was able to see the pain in my perception. The idea that I had to give into everybody all the time wasn't true. It was something I had to work to heal. I had to become aware of it in my thoughts and then slowly work on changing my behavior.That's our work together! I'm here to help you spot the crazy thinking, deal with the emotions that come up, and eventually learn how to shift your behavior so that it's no longer a reflection of all that pain.How do we do that?By questioning the thoughts that come up. Where did they come from? Why are they there? Are they helpful? From there we can figure out how to replace them with new thoughts. Ultimately, we're just trying to get the brain on board so that we can be happier and more confident in our own skin.

Package Options

3 Months

  • 9 One-Hour Private Calls (one every 10 days or so)

  • 8 10-15 minute Energy Healing Sessions (one in between each call)

  • Unlimited Voxer support in between calls.

  • A Welcome Kit that includes all the information you'll need to be successful while working with me!

$3333 CAD or 3 monthly payments of $1111 CAD

6 Months

  • 18 One-Hour Private Calls (one every 10 days or so)

  • 17 10-15 minute Energy Healing Sessions (one in between each call)

  • Unlimited Voxer support in between calls.

  • A Welcome Kit that includes all the information you'll need to be successful while working with me!

$ 5999 CAD or 6 monthly payments of $1000 CAD

12 Months

  • 30 One-Hour Private Calls (one every 10 days or so plus some vacation time)

  • 29 10-15 minute Energy Healing Sessions (one in between each call as needed)

  • Unlimited Voxer support in between calls.

  • A Welcome Kit that includes all the information you'll need to be successful while working with me!

$ 12 222 CAD or 12 monthly payments of $1022 CAD

Thoughts, Feelings, Behavior

What Is Self-Mastery?

Self-mastery is the art of managing your thoughts, feelings, and behavior without trying to control the experience.Do you feel out of control? Does that cause you to try to keep a death grip on what happens around you? How's that working for you? (Channeling my inner Dr. Phil!)The reality is that it doesn't work. It's just frustrating, stressful, and causes more problems than it solves. The idea is to learn how our perception of what's happening around us is affecting how we react or respond. From there we figure out what emotions are attached, we deal with both the thoughts and the emotions, shift them so they aren't a problem anymore, and then ultimately change our response so it doesn't reflect the old pain. It's not good to just heal the pain. If you continue to live from the pain you think you've healed, you're not getting anywhere. Life will continue to be frustrating.

The Choice Is Yours!

You're In Charge!

I'm not here to tell you what to do. I'm not another hurdle for you to overcome. I'm not another problem for you to solve.Managing your thinking doesn't mean doing it the way I want you to do it. It just means finding a perspective that doesn't offer you more pain. The choice you make doesn't matter, as long as it's not based on a painful perception and it doesn't continue the cycle. Once those two conditions are met, you're free to make whatever choice you want.You want the truth?There is no wrong choice.If it causes pain, you'll feel it and then we'll work on making a new choice.If it repeats the cycle, we'll see it and then we'll work on getting off the hamster wheel.The interesting thing about how this works is that it won't prevent detours, cycle repetition, or pain. My intuition won't stop those things and neither will yours. Those things are going to happen, they just will. I'm okay with that and I'm offering you the idea that you can be too. You don't have to beat yourself up for the cycle repetitions and bad choices. They are just part of the experience.This isn't pass or fail. I'm not grading you. You won't get kicked out of the program if you go around in circles. I'm not here to be mad or frustrated. I'm just here to help you navigate a bit better and spot some of those stories you're telling.But ultimately, it's all up to you and your willingness to bring the stuff up, talk to me, and do the work. I'll support you in all the ways I know how, but you're still the one that has to do the heavy-lifting. Because you're the one doing the work and because it's still your life, you have to be okay with the choices you're making. That's why I'm not taking control over your life. I'm not going to make choices for you. You stay in charge of your life.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Am I obligated to purchase a package if I apply now?
    No. There is no obligation to purchase anything by filling out the application form. Please note that if you change your mind in the future, you will have to re-apply.

  • Can we chat before I apply?
    If you would like a free 30-minute consultation before applying, please reach out to me to set something up.

  • Can I get a refund if I'm not happy?
    Yes I will refund you for all unused time. My hourly rate is $175 CAD. Once I have calculated all used time including calls, Voxer chats, and energy healing sessions, I will refund you any remaining money.

  • How much of a commitment do I have to make?
    What do you want to get out of this? Do you want to heal or just hope something happens if you run through a program with a coach?
    Self-mastery in a way of life for me. It's not just a hobby or something I do in my spare time. I live it. I'm offering you the opportunity to find a new way to be in the world that allows you to be more confident, happy, and successful (whatever that means to you). Your ability to heal yourself and indirectly change your life experience comes through being committed to the process, doing the work, sitting in the fear, managing your thoughts and feelings, all the while having support from me. How much you get out of the program is entirely dependent on how much work you're willing to do and how much of a commitment you're willing to make.

  • Can I take the program a second time?
    Yes, if you want to continue working with me once your package is complete, let's chat about where you want to go next.

  • What if I miss an appointment?
    Life happens. If you need to re-schedule or cancel an appointment you can do so either through the calendar or through me at the last minute. I expect this, particularly in the longer packages. Don't worry about it. I'm very flexible.

  • What is Voxer? Voxer is a text and voice chat app that allows us to easily communicate with each other without trading phone numbers or needing a data plan. It's free and super easy to use. The welcome kit will explain all about it!

  • Do you offer custom plans? If you want something you don't see posted, please reach out and let's see what we can come up with!

  • I didn't use Voxer the entire time, will you refund me for that?
    No. Voxer is part of the package. If you choose not to use everything that is available in the package that is your choice, however I will not refund you for making that choice.

  • I missed an appointment, will you refund me?
    No. Missed and skipped appointments will not be refunded.

Scholarships Available

Don't let money stop you. If you're committed to your own healing journey and you're interested in working with me but can't afford it, fill out the scholarship application form by clicking the button below and I'll be in touch. Full and partial scholarships are available. Message me for more information.

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